Anonymous asked: Hi :)
I like this boy, I think he might like me or he just wants to get to know me and be friends, but whatever I'm cool with either one of those things. But there's 2 little problems.
First, he's really awkward when he tries to talk to me and it's hard to respond to what he says. Like one day after driver's ed he's like "do you hear that?" and I was like "what?" and he goes "the sound of time and money going down the drain." so I sort of gave him a pity chuckle and was like "oh, right." and then he just walked away. so awkward hahaha. I'd go and talk to him except I get all quiet and I can't think of anything to say, and I'm normally a pretty outgoing person. blaah.
And problem number 2, he happens to be one of my close friend's brother. She already knew I liked him back in december and she later told me that it was kind of weird and I guess she's sort of right. i don't even know alkjghleiruta.

think you can help?

he seems sweet, and when he jokes around you should try and back him up with a laugh, even if you dont find it funny. it’s assuring.

i would say you should try and talk to him more. 

Anonymous asked: This is a very long story but I will try to let you know the main points.
- I have a best friend who's been with this guy for 2 years now. Almost 3.
- Shes always been cheating on him, since like the first year of dating.
- Right now shes messing with 2 other guys besides her boyfriend.
- I've always told her do what makes you happy but omg shes being so horrible right now.
- She doesn't have sex with the guys, but she does do other stuff like make out and she was talking about how she got a hickie on her boob from one of the 2 guys. & texts them 24/7 and calls them "babe" "i think about u all the time too" blah blah blah
- But her boy friend is absolutely horrible. Hes verbally abusive & gets mad over EVERYTHING even if she wears shorts out I'm not kidding he really doesn't want her to wear shorts when hes not with her.
- Hes also cheated on her in the past, but it was once. & lies to her here & there.
- Hes a very big hypocrite
- & for some reason her dumb ass will not let him go.

I honestly don't know what to do, should I try to talk to her? She is my best friend. Even though her boy friends the biggest scum bag I've ever seen, hes still has good intentions & does really love her. & here she is having little weekend boyfriends. Its getting so bad, I honestly think she might have sex with one of them sometime soon. But should I just let it be? & stay outta of it.

keep her away from that boy. he IS dangerous. he can hurt her till no end. 

he is becoming violent and VERY possessive. no girl needs a guy like that.

she needs to get rid of him quickly. make her realize the whole situation 

Anonymous asked: I've been best friends with this girl for 6 years,i don't know if i've changed or she has but either way all she every does is irritate me and all i want to do is get rid of her.She always thinks she knows 'what i'm going through' or she 'understands why i'm like the way i am ' i use to tell her everything,everything i was going through with my family and she has always used it against me,our friendship is nothing what friends should be, its a constant battle to see who's the best.I feel like i'm always the one to invite her and take her to things when i get nothing in return,lately i've been realizing she's not the friend i thought i had,everything we've done had always been provided my me.We're in too many things outside of school to just drop her or confront her about it.The thing is i don't want to fix it i just want her gone.

she sounds like a big problem and i would just try and drop her completely. she causes you this annoyance and she shouldnt have to if she’s your “best friend”. she should know better

Anonymous asked: okay hi sorry but i need advice
okay so my ex boyfriend and me are like basically still together, but he changes his mind so quickly. one day he's like "i want to be with you", "you're perfect" and the next he's like "i don't wanna hurt you", "i need to live my life!!!!!!", etc
he wants to be with me, but he doesn't want to at the same time? idk. should i wait for him to come back to me, or should i just try to move on? ok sorry for bothering youu

i would mov eon because it seems like he’s all over the place with his emotions

Anonymous asked: So i relapsed back into depression and cutting after fighting it for 3 years. i dont know where my life is heading anymore and i don't know how to seek for help. I'm miserable and no one knows since I constantly hide it with my smiles. I'm afraid I might get addicted to the blade again.. help me..?

dont ever touch a blade again. dont. dont let it control you, because all it will do is cause you more pain, scars, bleeding, and a cover for your problems. dont put yourself in the hands of a blade. never. you are SO much better than that, i need you to realize that. 

if you need help, seek professional help, that is what really can help you.

Anonymous asked: i really like this guy, but a couple months ago he liked my sister, and i feel like he only likes me cause he cant get my sis. but idk cause we go to football games together alot and hes always holding me from behind and holding my hand and whispering to me and stuff.... any advice? i just dont know what to do....

he could just be trying to use him. i would ask him up front about it, just so you know 

Anonymous asked: I've been needing to get this off my chest. So uh yeah~
My name is Heather and I've just turned 13 years old. I've been homeschooled all my life (which I loved). My great-grandma, who is 90, recently had cancer surgery and was in the hospital. Both of her sons recently died. She is living with us now, too. My mom has been taking care of my grandma and I missed about 4 weeks (maybe more) of schooling out of the whole year, so she and my dad decided they were going to send me and my sister to public school. My sister is extremely excited because she knows a bunch of people at her school, but I don't know anybody. All of my “friends” are going into highschool. I don't know what to do. I'm not social, and I'm very quiet. I never talk. I'm also awkward.
I live in a town where everybody judges you. I live in a double-wide trailer and I own four shirts, three jeans, and 1 pair of shoes. We don't have a lot of money, either. While all my other somewhat-friends live in huge houses and have closets full of clothing. I'm using my entire summer to babysit kids so I can get money to help my parents buy us school clothes. I vacuum, sweep, mop, dust, washes dishes, and cook everyday so my mom can get some rest.
I've cut my wrists for about a month now because I've been stressed out. I ate a lot and gained weight, so I've been anorexic/bulimic for two weeks or so now. I've started to hate the taste of food. I used to weigh 130 (which I was happy with), now I weigh about 100 or so. & I still think I'm fat. I think about suicide a lot too, but I could get myself to do it.
I pray every night that somebody would actually care and ask me “what's wrong” and people wouldn't call me an attention whore. Thanks Rachel for taking your time to read this. :)

starting a new school is tough, but the new girl will always make a friend. trust me. i was the new girl at my school back in middle school and i was terrified. but the first day of school a girl came up to me and invited me to sit with her at lunch. i had never been so happy. 

as for money, it doesn’t matter what you own or what you wear because people shouldn’t care about that. but if you’re worried, then im glad you’re saving up money to purchase clothes. 

i used to be anorexic, and i wish people weren’t, but since those days of mine i realized a lot about it. i was thinking i was fat when i was 90 lbs. my body was disgusting because i starved it. i want to lose weight (even tho you shouldn’t) the healthy way. eat good foods, go for a bike ride or run. exercise is what you need to do to lose it. it’s the right way, and healthy way.

i don’t want you to cut. i too am really suicidal, but i don’t want you to do anything. your family needs you, and they do love you. every person you meet is effected by who you are. and when you are gone they will be effected. you are special, and i don’t care if someone says you’re not, because you are. stress can cause these feelings.

you are not an attention whore, believe me. you are going thru a tough time, and you’re doing well for where you are.

Anonymous asked: okay so the guy i like made out with me. he cuddles me all the time and wants to hang out. i asked him if he liked me and he said "i don't know, i dont develop feelings for someone for awhile." so then yesterday i was with him again and he made out with me again. so do you think he likes me and what should i do?

sometimes guys will play out a girl to see if they do like you. spend more time with him and see if he starts to like you. if he doesn’t, then he isnt worth it because he could just be using you

Anonymous asked: Hey,
I'm a really nice guy, and all girls ever say they want is a nice guy...or at least that's what they tell me. Every girl who tells me that they want a nice, emotional guy, goes for a douchebag. A guy who mistreats them or ignores them in some way. I see this happening and wonder why no girls would want me? I'm so much nicer and could treat any girl so much better than a douchebag could, so why don't they like me?

see that’s about 90% of girls. they want a sweet caring guy, then they go for a douchebag. it’s because we’re afraid of how nice or caring they are. some girls want an authoritative boyfriend, so they end up dating a douchebag, even though they want a nice one. it’s complicated to explain why we feel this way, but know this. you’re going to be the one that girls will want to marry. no girl is going to want to marry a douchebag.  but for now, there will be girls who are ready for your type. most immature girls go for the douches 

Anonymous asked: okay, so i think i am in love with this guy....but he is 6 years older than me. the thing is we are perfect for each other. everytime im around him i feel nothing but happy. but he just got a girlfriend and we've gotten so close. we almost kissed. but i don't know if i should let him go, but i think he might be the one.

if you’re still a teenager, then i would try and let him have that relationship. but if you’re out of high school let’s say, then you should still let that relationship play out. if he’s happy, let him be happy, but still keep yourself in his life. if he isn’t, then you should be there for him.